How to choose a middle name

A good middle name usually has a different number of syllables from the first name and starts on a different sound from the one the first name ends on. Say the full name aloud, and the rest is taste.

Four things to check

These are the same checks the scores use. The methodology page lists the points. You can also read why rhythm and syllables matter.

Middle names for the most popular boy names

Middle names for the most popular girl names

Scores are for the pairing, not for the name on its own, and are shown on each name's page with the reason behind them. Names and popularity are US data from Social Security records. Browse boy names or girl names for the rest, or see sibling names and twin names.

Common questions

How do you choose a middle name?

Start with the first name and say the full name aloud. Look for a middle name with a different number of syllables, one that starts on a different sound from the one the first name ends on, and one that does not repeat the first letter unless you want it to. Then check the initials and the last name.

Should a middle name be shorter or longer than the first name?

Either works. What matters is that the lengths differ, because two names of the same length in a row tend to sound flat. A short first name often suits a longer middle name, and a long first name often suits a short one.

Does a middle name have to be a family name?

No. Many families use a relative's name, a surname or a name that carries meaning for them, and many choose purely for sound. This site only looks at how names sound together, so family and cultural choices are yours to make.

How are the middle name scores worked out?

Each candidate earns points for a change in length, a clean join between the two names, a different first letter and a shared style. The full list of points is on the methodology page.